WHY DOES THIS BLOG EVEN EXIST.

She said, "With those books that you keep on reading, with those ideas and thoughts that you keep on thinking, and with those goals and standard that you keep on raising, I worry that you may not be happy with your life."

My mun told me that couple months ago while we were on vacation.

After that conversation, I could not help but kept asking myself these question:

Was I happy? Was I really being too hard on myself?

How about now? Am I happy? If not, what did I do wrong?

The funny thing is many people believe that we will be unhappiness or even depressed if we think too much about "Happiness" or if we keep asking ourselves questions like

"how to live your life? how to improve your life?" and blah blah blah

but do you know what else is funny?

Once I started asking or simply became more aware of "Happiness," it seems to me that I became a bit happier.

So maybe, overthinking about Happiness or some other kind of positive stuff ain't a bad thing after all.

That is one of the reasons why this blog exists, and I truly believe this blog can make a difference. In fact, it already did. Preparing to launch this blog reminded of couple things that actually make a difference in my life.

1. Ideas are great, but the implementation is KING.

It does not mean we should not try to come up with new ideas, having new ideas or pondering about SOMETHING is the first step of EVERYTHING. It is like taking pre-workout before you go to the gym. But then again what is the point of taking pre-workout if you don't go to the gym?

2. It is OK to make mistakes, it is ok to be a beginner.

People don't notice your mistake as much as you think, and even if they do, some of them might even try to help you. REMEMBER ! Every master was once a beginner.

Stop complaining that you are not good at something and just start doing something about it! So what if you look stupid now? So what if people keep on laughing at you? If you really care about them that much, then I suggest you keep on working, keep on doing that stupid thing, so one day you can master it. Then you can laugh if at yourself if you want to. Hahaha

I am aware that I am not good at writing, and that is the main reason why I am now writing this blog post now! (SURPRISE!)

What is the point of me kept on saying "ohhhhh English is not my first language, I am Lao, it is ok. ohhhh I don't like writing, i prefer to speak to people ohhhhh I don't want to write because i am not good at writing." SAYING ALL THIS WONT CHANGE ANTYING.

3.It is ok to ask for help.

Seriously, it is ok, it is fine to ask for help. If you need any help, just ask me. I see what I can do. Meanwhile, I need your help. Firstly, I want to say THANK YOU for reading this far LOL and I would love if you can share your thoughts on whatever topic that I will write on this blog post.

SHARE it if you want, LIKE it if you want, Re-read it if you want, Dislike it if you want, just make sure that you do something, don’t just sit there complaining.